Let Men Fight For Their Preferences And Let Their Preferences Fight For Them
Donald Trump stuck to his words and has started to mass deport thousands of illegal immigrants in the United States. I find myself asking one question and one question only. Why are Latinos and liberal Black women all over social media asking Black women to help illegal immigrants escape their fate? Despite the fact that almost every demographic on this planet participates in misogynoir, there are still so many Black women who refuse to stop muling for people who clearly do not like them. The constant uplifting and defending of groups who despise Black women has got to be a very powerful form of Stockholm syndrome at this point. If there is one thing Black women should take away from the 2024 elections, it should be understanding that every man is out here for themselves. Black women are allowed to be unsympathetic towards others and we should not feel guilty about it. I am writing this blog post to spread one message and one message only. Let the groups of women that men uplift defend their honor. Black women should not feel obligated to fight for any group of males because no group of males uplifts Black women’s image, en masse, in a positive light.
Trump is deporting illegal immigrants? Let the white and Black male incels who scream about how submissive Latinas are fight for their citizenship.
A Black man gets shot to death by the cops? (Many of these Black males killed by the cops, such as George Floyd, have nonBlack wives) Let the white, Latina, and Asian women that Black men put on a pedestal go out and protest for them.
Palestine/Gaza is getting turned into a burnt kebab by Israel’s army? Let the blonde hair, blue eyed white women that Arab men chase after defend their country’s right to exist.
Indian men are being called smelly rapists by white people? Let the bright, light, and white women they put on a pedestal argue on their behalf.
DEI programs are being shut down? Let white women and trans people, who are the main groups that benefited from such programs, fight for them to stay.
A white female celebrity is being crucified by the public? Let their white and nonBlack fanbase fight for their reputation.
Trump’s new policies take away healthcare from poor white people? Let the racist leftists who like to call Black women Nazis for using Instacart support them.
A nonBlack woman dies from a miscarriage due to an anti-abortion policy in her state? Let the nonBlack women who voted in these anti-abortion laws in the first place bring awareness to this issue.
A nonBlack woman is having baby mama drama with her Black boyfriend? (ex: Cardi B, Erica Mena, Bhad Babie) Let the Black males who scream about how “traditional” nonBlack women are sympathize with them.
Trans women are being kicked out of women’s spaces and having their cosmetic surgeries no longer be funded by taxpayers? Let the white women they believe inherently define womanhood fight for their rights to be restored.
A Black male celebrity is coming out with a new movie but makes a nonBlack woman the female lead? (ex: Ryan Coogler’s new film ‘Sinners’) Let the nonBlack women Black men place on a pedestal pay money to go see it.
Black women, stop fighting. Let men fight for their preferences and let the women they prefer fight for them. If a group of men place a specific group of women on a pedestal, they should only expect that group of women to defend them when they are in times of need. Point blank. Feminists can disagree all they want, but I believe women are responsible for the males that put them on a pedestal. If these women did not like being placed over other groups of women, they would simply just say that, but they do no such thing. Likewise, Black women are not responsible for any group of men. We can love and cherish the SINGULAR men we are married to or dating without defending the entire demographic they hail from. Since no group of men prioritizes the self interests of the Black female collective, we do not owe any group of males solidarity. Stop feeling guilty for not giving a damn about people who couldn't care less if you died tomorrow. As a Black woman, your only job is to practice self preservation. The only thing Black women need to do is mind our business, not just for these next four years, but for the rest of our lives. It is okay to ignore the plight of demographics who voted back in November of 2024 to be in the sad position they are in now. Focus on yourself. Do not provide free labor that is unreciprocated to anyone, not now, and not ever again.
Always love your reads! These next few years are going to be an aggressive wake up call to other demographics that believe they're above black women. The mistreatment they face will have them questioning the pedestal they were placed on.
ReplyDeleteCheers to the growth of black female empowerment and self preservation! 🥂🥂
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Deletegiving out your labour for free as a black woman in a world that severely mistreats black women in many different ways regularly is crazy work.
ReplyDeletei will be minding my own business and i encourage all bw to do the same. when we’re being abused and degraded, all these other demos turn a blind eye. we don’t owe them a damn thing.
ReplyDeletePlease never stop writing. It’s so wonderful and refreshing to see likeminded Black women have such takes on things everyone’s crying about these days. I’ve completely severed myself from “the community”, these social causes/movements, and all of these political movements from each side, so seeing women like you is such a treat that I always cherish! Everyone else can fend for themselves just fine, but it’s unfortunately hard for a lot of Black women (who despite having similar takes such as the kind your blog holds, those women still have hope and fence sit for a failed community that has its fate already set in stone, especially since these so called “modern” issues existed far beyond our grandmothers’ generation) to realize and understand that not every Black woman is going to make it (and the vast majority will go down with that ship/the Black “community”), so after realizing everything regarding our situation as Black women it’s “every woman for herself” at this point. Keep up the phenomenal work and be safe!
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